Unlocking the Secret to Introverted Success: What Deion Sanders Can Teach Us
A 2 min read.
Tyler and I have never really been college football fans but this year has been a little different. The buzz surrounding Deion Sanders and his role with the CU Buffs this season is undeniable.
What's particularly intriguing is the revelation that Deion, a renowned figure in the world of sports, is actually an introvert. He's managed to transform himself from a quiet country boy into the larger-than-life persona we know as "Prime," and this journey offers valuable insights for introverts like us.
From a quiet country boy to "Prime," Deion Sanders crafted an alter ego that propelled him onto the grandest stages imaginable. It's intriguing to see how he, someone who prefers solitude and despises crowds, willingly steps into the spotlight each week, basking in the cheers of tens of thousands of fans, with every move under intense scrutiny throughout his career.
Now, you might wonder how this connects to the life of an introvert in a different domain, like the restaurant business. Well, the truth is, it can be incredibly demanding. In the hospitality industry, you're expected to be "on" all the time, attending to customers, managing staff, and ensuring everything runs smoothly. For those of us that are introverts, this can be very draining.
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I'm also an introvert, and throughout my hospitality career, I've had to acquire the skill of tapping into my extroverted side when engaging with tables, conducting staff meetings, or hosting private events. Making small talk with strangers has consistently been a source of discomfort and exhaustion for me. However, I've come to realize that if I redirect my focus towards connecting with the person right in front of me, rather than dwelling on how draining it can be, I often leave those conversations feeling more invigorated. It's amusing to consider that my extroverted persona could be seen as an alter ego, although I've never really thought of it that way.
After my shifts, I found it beneficial to take 20-30 minutes to unwind and recharge. This could involve sitting quietly in my car on the drive home, requesting 20 minutes of solitude from Tyler upon arriving home for a shower and some personal time, or even taking a brief 20-minute nap. These activities helped me replenish my energy, allowing me to be more attentive to Tyler, friends, and family after work and on my days off.
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As an introvert, it's crucial to prioritize self-care and recharging. Just as you expend energy in social interactions and demanding roles, you must also invest time in replenishing your inner reserves. Deon Sanders' ability to navigate the world of sports while staying true to his introverted nature reminds us that we, too, can find our balance and thrive in our chosen fields by understanding our needs and making adjustments when necessary.
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